T\u00eb dashur lexues, n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn marsi njihet si nj\u00eb muaj q\u00eb na kujton t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr grat\u00eb dhe vajzat. Nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me historin\u00eb apo festimet. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si trajtohen vajzat n\u00eb shkolla, online, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat publike. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si trajtohen grat\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri dhe n\u00eb vendimmarrje. Grat\u00eb dhe vajzat p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb gjysm\u00ebn e popullsis\u00eb s\u00eb bot\u00ebs. Z\u00ebrat, idet\u00eb dhe talentet e tyre kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb shum\u00eb vende ato ende p\u00ebrballen me trajtim t\u00eb padrejt\u00eb, diskriminim dhe kufizime vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre. Marsi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndalur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb reflektuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: a trajtohen v\u00ebrtet grat\u00eb dhe vajzat si t\u00eb barabarta?<\/p>\n
T\u00eb drejtat e grave kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me barazin\u00eb.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb drejtat e grave nuk kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me t\u00eb qenit m\u00eb t\u00eb mira se burrat. Ato kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me t\u00eb pasurit t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat t\u00eb drejta, mund\u00ebsi dhe respekt. \u00c7do vajz\u00eb ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb n\u00eb arsim, siguri dhe liri shprehjeje. \u00c7do grua ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e saj, karrier\u00ebn e saj dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs. Barazia do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, t\u00eb mund t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh pa frik\u00eb. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb merresh seriozisht. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb kesh t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur sukses. Kur grat\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtohen ose hesht\u00ebn, shoq\u00ebria humb ide, kreativitet dhe p\u00ebrparim.<\/p>\n
Vajzat duhet t\u00eb rriten duke besuar te vetja.<\/p>\n
Ato duhet t\u00eb inkurajohen t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pyetje, t\u00eb shprehin mendime dhe t\u00eb synojn\u00eb lart. Asnj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cshum\u00eb e madhe\u201d apo \u201cjo p\u00ebr vajza\u201d. Shkenca, sporti, arti, lidershipi, teknologjia \u2013 \u00e7do fush\u00eb u p\u00ebrket t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, stereotipet ende ekzistojn\u00eb. Vajzave nganj\u00ebher\u00eb u thuhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb qeta, m\u00eb t\u00eb vogla ose m\u00eb pak ambicioze. K\u00ebto porosi mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimin me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. T\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes\u00ebsh vajzat do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb sfidosh k\u00ebto stereotipe dhe t\u00eb krijosh hap\u00ebsira ku ato ndihen t\u00eb sigurta t\u00eb jen\u00eb vetvetja.<\/p>\n
Respekti fillon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb drejtat e grave nuk mbrohen vet\u00ebm nga ligjet. Ato mbrohen nga sjellja jon\u00eb e p\u00ebrditshme. Respekti shfaqet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si flasim, si b\u00ebjm\u00eb shaka, si komentojm\u00eb online dhe si i trajtojm\u00eb njer\u00ebzit rreth nesh. Ai shfaqet kur d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrpresim, kur mb\u00ebshtesim n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb gjykojm\u00eb dhe kur ngrem\u00eb z\u00ebrin kund\u00ebr trajtimeve t\u00eb padrejta. Si djemt\u00eb ashtu edhe vajzat kan\u00eb rol n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e barazis\u00eb. T\u00eb jesh aleat do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh kund\u00ebr ngacmimit, diskriminimit dhe bullizmit. Heshtja lejon padrejt\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb ndryshim.<\/p>\n
E ardhmja \u00ebsht\u00eb e barabart\u00eb.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e form\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. M\u00ebnyra se si mendoni, flisni dhe veproni sot do t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktoj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e s\u00eb nes\u00ebrmes. Barazia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb trend apo nj\u00eb favor. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb e drejt\u00eb themelore e njeriut. K\u00ebt\u00eb mars, gjeni koh\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni, t\u00eb pyesni dhe t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesni grat\u00eb dhe vajzat. Respektoni z\u00ebrat e tyre. Besoni n\u00eb forc\u00ebn e tyre. Kur grat\u00eb dhe vajzat fuqizohen, bota b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb vend m\u00eb i drejt\u00eb dhe m\u00eb i fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Miqt\u00eb e mi, deri n\u00eb takimin ton\u00eb t\u00eb radh\u00ebs n\u00eb prill, sh\u00ebndet.<\/p>\n
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Shkruar nga Menaxherja e revist\u00ebs 4You Magazine<\/em>, Leonora Shabanaj Niksic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb dashur lexues, n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn marsi njihet si nj\u00eb muaj q\u00eb na kujton t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr grat\u00eb dhe vajzat. Nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me historin\u00eb apo festimet. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si trajtohen vajzat n\u00eb shkolla, online, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat publike. Ka…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":77335,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","category-2","description-off"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77334"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77334\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":77338,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77334\/revisions\/77338"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}