Mos jeto p\u00ebr t\u2019ju b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, mir\u00ebpo puno p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde, pasi q\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb proces…Ne ngrihemi dhe biem posht\u00eb, kemi suksese dhe d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb. Por k\u00ebto p\u00ebrvoja p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb m\u00ebsime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne, ato q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb n\u00ebse shpresojm\u00eb t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb sukseshme. Shum\u00eb studiues e autor\u00eb kan\u00eb shkruar p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimet q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i marrim, drejt nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb suksesshme, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb vijim Radio KFOR-i ju propozon q\u00eb ti lexoni disa m\u00ebsime, t\u00eb cil\u00ebsuara si t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme:<\/p>\n
M\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor #1: P\u00ebrcaktoni vlerat e mira: <\/em><\/strong>Shum\u00eb shpesh, suksesi matet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket parave ose fuqis\u00eb personale. P\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore e suksesshme, duhet t\u00eb piqemi emocionalisht, shoq\u00ebrisht, shpirt\u00ebrisht dhe moralisht. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, zhvillimi i etik\u00ebs dhe vlerave nuk kultivohet dhe jeta e tyre rrotullohet rreth ndjekjes s\u00eb epsheve, posedimit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave materiale dhe nj\u00eb mentalitet narcistik \u201cun\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jem i\/e pari\/a\u201d. Njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb krijuar p\u00ebr \u201ct\u00ebr\u00ebsi\u201d. Vlerat e mira ndodhin brenda nesh dhe i japin kuptim d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n M\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor #2: Zhvilloni vet\u00ebdijen: <\/strong>Vet\u00ebdija \u00ebsht\u00eb aft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u2019i hedhur nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb vetes ton\u00eb, pa gjykuar ato q\u00eb ne i shohim si t\u00eb mira ose t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur personin m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre – veten e tyre. P\u00ebrvojat tona (t\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqija), formojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ne e shohim bot\u00ebn, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jet\u00ebsore p\u00ebr ne t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se si bota ka formuar personalitetet tona.<\/p>\n M\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor #3: Mos u lidhni pas lumturis\u00eb: <\/em><\/strong>Lumturia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e popullarizuar k\u00ebto koh\u00eb, por le t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb – lumturia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb emocion i \u00e7astit. M\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh gj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb vler\u00eb dhe kuptim (m\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor # 1). Momentet e lumturis\u00eb automatikisht do t\u00eb burojn\u00eb nga ato gj\u00ebra.<\/p>\n M\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor # 4: M\u00ebsimet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira zakonisht shfaqen nga d\u00ebshtimet: <\/strong>Warren Bennis kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb gjith\u00eb udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsit e shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm, pa p\u00ebrjashtim, kan\u00eb p\u00ebsuar d\u00ebshtime traumatike. Sikur n\u00eb ato moment hekuri t\u00eb hynte n\u00eb shpirtin e tyre; ato momente krijojn\u00eb rezistenc\u00ebn q\u00eb u duhen udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsve\u201d. <\/em><\/p>\n M\u00ebsimi jet\u00ebsor # 5: Q\u00ebndrimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund ta kontrolloni gjithmon\u00eb: <\/strong>Q\u00ebndrimi yn\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb mendimet, emocionet dhe sjelljen ton\u00eb. Nj\u00eb num\u00ebr i njer\u00ebzve priren rreth mendimeve negative nd\u00ebrsa refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb shohin gj\u00ebrat e mira q\u00eb i rrethojn\u00eb. T\u00eb kesh q\u00ebndrim pozitiv ndaj jet\u00ebs n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i t\u00eb ecurit p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mos jeto p\u00ebr t\u2019ju b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, mir\u00ebpo puno p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde, pasi q\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb proces…Ne ngrihemi dhe biem posht\u00eb, kemi suksese dhe d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb. Por k\u00ebto p\u00ebrvoja p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb m\u00ebsime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne, ato q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb n\u00ebse shpresojm\u00eb t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb sukseshme. 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