Vonesat jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme edhe kur b\u00ebhen nga personat ton\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur. Secili nga ne p\u00ebrballet me t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb person brenda dit\u00ebs, q\u00eb nuk e respekton orarin e sakt\u00eb, orarin e pun\u00ebs ose orarin e nj\u00eb takimi p\u00ebr drek\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por, pse ndodhin k\u00ebto vonesa dhe si t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb n\u00ebse jemi persona t\u00eb ndikuar nga kjo dukuri?<\/p>\n
Prof.dr. Pauline Wallin, psikologe n\u00eb\u201d Camp Hill\u201d, t\u00eb Pensilvanis\u00eb e identifikon shum\u00eb thjesht k\u00ebt\u00eb problem:<\/p>\n
\u201cNjer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb von\u00eb, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, jan\u00eb n\u00eb \u201cluft\u00eb\u201d me ankthin, shp\u00ebrqendrimin, \u00e7rregullimin emocional ose gjendje t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb brendshme psikologjike. N\u00ebse e trajtojm\u00eb me kujdes k\u00ebt\u00eb problematik\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim shum\u00eb interesant, ata q\u00eb njihen n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri si persona q\u00eb jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me vones\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen ton\u00eb, prandaj secili duhet t\u00eb tentoj\u00eb t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb t\u2019iu dal\u00eb n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, Profesor i psikologjis\u00eb n\u00eb Universitetin e San Diego-s, Ph. D. Jeff Conte, ka treguar se problemi i vonesave \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebraf\u00ebrt me var\u00ebsit\u00eb me t\u00eb cilat ne p\u00ebrballemi \u00e7do dit\u00eb. \u00a0\u201cT\u2019i thuash nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb von\u00eb t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrij\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb sikur t\u2019i thuash nj\u00eb personi n\u00eb diet\u00eb t\u00eb mos haj\u00eb shum\u00eb, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishte aq e thjesht\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ekzistonin peshoret.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Megjithat\u00eb tejkalimi i vonesave ndodh vet\u00ebm kur ju e pranoni plot\u00ebsisht se e keni k\u00ebt\u00eb problem, dhe nga ai moment filloni t\u00eb punoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb rregulluar k\u00ebt\u00eb detaj t\u00eb personalitetit tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Vonesat jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme edhe kur b\u00ebhen nga personat ton\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur. Secili nga ne p\u00ebrballet me t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb person brenda dit\u00ebs, q\u00eb nuk e respekton orarin e sakt\u00eb, orarin e pun\u00ebs ose orarin e nj\u00eb takimi p\u00ebr drek\u00eb. Por, pse ndodhin k\u00ebto vonesa dhe si t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb n\u00ebse jemi persona t\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":49533,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49532","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","category-2","description-off"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49532","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49532"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49532\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49534,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49532\/revisions\/49534"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiokfor.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nProfesor Conte ekrahason problemin e vonesave me problemin e mbipesh\u00ebs:<\/p>\n